DAYTID OS · Private dating operating system

Date across apps. Live in one place.

Every connection, every plan, every next step in one private, calm command view. Built around you, never wired into the apps.

Enter DAYTID

01 — The idea

Integrate the dater.

Six inboxes. One person. Nothing that connects them.

You are the only constant across every app.

Your matches, your plans, your memory should live where you are.

Not scattered across six inboxes.

DAYTID is the operating layer under your dating life. It never touches the platforms. It organises you.

Works alongside whatever you already use

  • Hinge
  • Bumble
  • Tinder
  • Raya
  • Feeld
  • Match
  • In real life

Names of third-party apps are used only to describe where you may have met someone. No partnership, endorsement, API access, or account connection is implied.

02 — Profile Studio

Your profile, built like a product.

A private vault for your photos, honest ranking against real criteria, and packs cut to each app's exact limits. Nothing is uploaded to any platform. You copy it across yourself.

  • Photos stay in a private, encrypted-at-rest vault
  • Ranking explains what a set is missing, never who you are
  • One bio, adapted to every character limit
Picks the engine best suited to each photo.

Photo vault

01

Private by default.

Hero candidateClear face · Daylight
Lifestyle
Full body
Social

Smart ranking

02

Honest, not flattering.

Set review · Auto

Strong on warmth and context. Missing one clear, well-lit face shot as the opener and any photo that shows what you do on a weekend.

  • Clear face, good light
  • Full body, natural
  • Doing something you loveMissing
  • One social, not a crowd
  • No sunglasses in the opener
  • Recent (under 12 months)Missing

Criteria review only. DAYTID never scores attractiveness or judges anyone else's photos.

App-specific packs

03

One voice. Every limit.

Hinge pack

6 photos150 chars

Bio 138 / 150 · Copy to Hinge

Bumble pack

6 photos300 chars

Bio 184 / 300 · Copy to Bumble

Raya pack

8 photos240 chars

Bio 187 / 240 · Copy to Raya

Swipe or scroll the rail. Every screen here is DAYTID's own interface; the apps are only named so packs fit their limits.

A person at night in the city, lit by passing traffic

03 — Connection memory

Stop starting over.

Every person becomes one record: where you met, where things stand, what they told you, and what you said you would do next. Across every app, in one place, only for you.

Connection 07

Planning

  1. Tonight

    Follow up before the thread goes cold

  2. Thu

    Second date · Wine bar · 7:30

  3. Mon

    Long message thread · good energy

  4. Mar 20

    First date · coffee walk · you noted: half marathon in May

  5. Mar 14

    Matched on Bumble

04 — AI Copilot

Intelligence that knows the story.

Openers, replies, date briefs, and debriefs grounded in your own notes and written in your own voice. Every draft shows what it used. Nothing sends without you.

  • Reads only what you have saved in DAYTID
  • Three options, three tones, one you actually sound like
  • You edit, copy, and paste. DAYTID has no way to send.

Reply · Connection 03

Mode: reply · Voice: yours

Draft only

Option 1 · Warm

Still thinking about that ramen place you mentioned. Are you around Thursday, or is your week already gone?

Your note: ramenLast message · 2d
Edit Copy

Option 2 · Direct

Thursday works for me if it works for you. Ramen?

Your calendar: Thu free
Edit Copy

Option 3 · Playful

I'm holding Thursday hostage until you confirm ramen.

Your tone sample
Edit Copy

Sources: your note from Mar 20, your last message summary, your calendar. Nothing else was read.

No send button exists

Date brief

Two minutes before you leave: what they told you, what to ask, what to avoid.

Debrief

Five questions after. Your honest read, saved to the record.

Decide

When it is time to continue or close, a clear summary from your own notes.

05 — Date Planner

Plans that hold up on the night.

Time, place, travel, a brief, and a safety note. Venue ideas come from Google Places only once you connect it. Until then, the planner tells you so instead of inventing suggestions.

  • Venue shortlist

    Public places near you both, or your own picks.

  • Calendar hold

    Optional Google Calendar sync. Off by default.

  • Safety note

    One link, one trusted person, revocable any time.

A rooftop at dusk with the city behind it

Places not connected

9:41••••

Plan · Thursday

Second date

7:30

Time

12 min

Away

Sent

Check-in

Google Places not connected

Add your own venue or connect it in Settings. No fake suggestions.

Share safety note

Time, place, check-in · to one trusted person

Share
TodayPeopleCopilotPlans

Both states are real. Google Places, Google Calendar and Maps are owner-configured integrations; DAYTID shows an honest "not connected" state until they are.

06 — Privacy

Yours. Not the platforms'.

One tap veils every name and detail so nothing is readable over your shoulder. The same lock is in the app, on every screen, always one thumb away.

Privacy lock

Connection 12

Hinge

Details veiled. Tap Visible to reveal, or leave it locked while you are out.

01Private by default
Every record is yours alone. Row-level security on the database, private storage for photos.
02No app logins
DAYTID never asks for, stores, or uses a dating-app password. There is nothing to leak.
03No sending, ever
There is no send path in the product. Drafts are copied by you, into apps you control.
04Export and delete
Take everything out as a file. Delete the account and the data goes with it.

07 — Plans

Start free. Grow when your dating life does.

Free is genuinely useful. Plus runs the whole pipeline. Pro adds the deep profile work and premium image credits.

Free

Get organized. See the shape of your dating life.

Free, always

  • Private photo vault (starter limit)
  • Connection records with pipeline stages
  • Manual and copy/paste import
  • One profile pack workspace
Most complete

Plus

Run it properly. Every connection, every follow-up.

Pricing configured at launch

  • Larger photo and connection limits
  • Full Copilot modes with tone control
  • Date planner, briefs and reminders
  • Insights from your own records

Pro

The full operating system, with the deep profile work.

Pricing configured at launch

  • Highest limits across the workspace
  • Advanced photo analysis and identity-safe improvement
  • Deeper insight views and version history
  • Premium image credit allowance

Paid tiers open once billing is connected to this workspace. Until then every account is on Free, nothing is charged, and no fake checkout exists.

08 — Enter

Date clearly.

Free to start. Private from the first record. Nothing connects to the apps.