How it works

Four honest steps. Zero platform access.

Four honest steps: bring what you already have, turn it into one clear view, plan and prepare properly, and reflect on your own records. No dating-app access, ever.

  1. 01

    You bring the information.

    DAYTID has no connection to any dating app. You paste, upload, or type what you already have: a screenshot for your own review, a summary of a chat, a name, where you met.

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    Connection 07

    Planning

    BumbleStarted Mar 142 dates

    What you remember

    • · Running a half in May, training Tuesdays
    • · Sister just moved to the city
    • · Prefers wine bars to loud rooms

    Timeline

    1. Thu

      Second date · Wine bar

    2. Mon

      Long message thread · Good energy

    3. Mar 20

      First date · Coffee walk

    4. Mar 14

      Matched · Bumble

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  2. 02

    It becomes one clear view.

    Every person gets a record with a stage, a timeline, and your notes. Today shows what needs you now, what is next, and what is drifting, across every app.

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    Today

    Now

    Private

    Connection 03

    Follow up · met on Hinge · 2 days quiet

    Open in HingeDraft

    Next

    • Connection 07

      Confirm Thursday · 7:30

      Bumble
    • Connection 01

      Reply window closes tonight

      Raya
    • Connection 12

      Decide: continue or close

      IRL

    Radar

    2 drifting · 1 decision due · 3 active

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  3. 03

    Plan and prepare.

    Draft bios per app, prep a date with a two-minute brief, shortlist a venue, set your own reminders and a safety check-in. Copilot drafts; you edit, copy, and send.

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    Copilot · Reply

    Connection 03

    Option 1 of 3 · Warm

    Still thinking about that ramen place you mentioned. Are you around Thursday, or is your week already gone?

    Used: your noteTone: yours

    Option 2 · Direct

    Thursday works for me if it works for you. Ramen?

    Edit Copy Open app

    Nothing sends from here. You paste it yourself.

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  4. 04

    Reflect on real history.

    Debrief after a date, decide with a clear summary, and read patterns counted only from what you logged. Nothing is inferred about anyone else.

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    Plan · Thursday

    Second date

    Wine bar · Walkable

    Quiet after 8 · 12 min from both

    7:30

    Time

    12 min

    Away

    Sent

    Check-in

    Venue ideas from Google Places

    Live results, filtered to public places near you both.

    Share safety note

    Time, place, check-in · to one trusted person

    Share
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08 — Enter

Date clearly.

Free to start. Private from the first record. Nothing connects to the apps.