Safety
Built into the plan, not bolted on after.
Practical safety built into planning: a shareable safety note for one trusted person, your own check-in reminders, a privacy lock on every screen, and clear guidance if something feels wrong.
Safety note
One link. One trusted person.
A safety note is a public, unguessable page with the time, place and check-in window you chose. It carries no names from your records. You send the link yourself, and you can revoke it the moment the night is over.
- Opens logged out, on any phone
- Revocable and expiring
- Never includes your notes or the other person's details
Plan · Thursday
Second date

Wine bar · Walkable
Quiet after 8 · 12 min from both
7:30
Time
12 min
Away
Sent
Check-in
Venue ideas from Google Places
Live results, filtered to public places near you both.
Share safety note
Time, place, check-in · to one trusted person
- 01Tell someone where you are going
- Every date plan can produce a safety note with time, place, and a check-in window. You share it, in your own words, with one person you trust. Revoke it any time.
- 02Your own check-ins
- Set reminders before and after a date. They notify you, never anyone else, and never a platform.
- 03Privacy lock
- One tap veils names and details so nothing is readable over your shoulder, on every screen.
- 04If something feels wrong
- Trust it. Leave. Report the person on the app you met them on and to local authorities where appropriate. DAYTID keeps your record so you have the details.
06 — Privacy
Yours. Not the platforms'.
One tap veils every name and detail so nothing is readable over your shoulder. The same lock is in the app, on every screen, always one thumb away.
Connection 12
Details veiled. Tap Visible to reveal, or leave it locked while you are out.
- 01Private by default
- Every record is yours alone. Row-level security on the database, private storage for photos.
- 02No app logins
- DAYTID never asks for, stores, or uses a dating-app password. There is nothing to leak.
- 03No sending, ever
- There is no send path in the product. Drafts are copied by you, into apps you control.
- 04Export and delete
- Take everything out as a file. Delete the account and the data goes with it.